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| Hey I’m back quicker then ever. And today’s subject is something that is always being questioned
relationships
Oh my god it’s the be R. There are different types of relationships here and there. Best friends, lovers, pimps and hos, marriage, casual, friends and more. But today’s little blog is about one of those mentioned, lovers/couples.
Yeah. That’s what we doing today.
Rated: whatever just read and if your scared go run away haha.
Love relationships. That’s a step above being a friend. It’s a time when you choose someone who you think is above the rest and is a very important person to you, if we are talking a perfect situation here and for sake of argument we are. This kind of relationship are actually (despite what a lot of people say) very easy to begin. It’s just choosing someone out there that you believe is up and beyond everyone else is the hard part, and getting them to agree. And now we must understand this level of relationship.
This relationship is a step above being a friend and a step below being married. It’s one of the biggest steps in determining if this person is right for you and could be someone you should consider to marry to, if you don’t consider that then why are you going out? I mean come on. Anyways, during this time a beginning is so much easier because it’s basically being married, but it’s just the honeymoon. This “honeymoon” could last for quite a while depending on how it’s spent or on how each person feels about how long it should last, also same goes with the ‘intensity’ with the “honeymoon”. The hardest part of this relationship is basically the long run, which is everything a little past the “honeymoon” period” and that’s the huge topic of today’s session.
This period post-honeymoon is a big thing in the relationship because many doubts, wrongs, feelings can interfere within and conflicts can arise. This period is a very hard time because people easily interfere with the relationship and the people in the relationship can easily doubt themselves and their partner. This a VERY VERY (hint: VERY) important step in determining about how the relationship means to you. At this point you may or may not have come to realize that you may have to give up things in order for the relationship to work and whether or not you want to give it up is up to you. Such as going out late at night with friends, going clubbing, meeting the guys every Friday and Saturday, weekly bar goings with friends, etc. Whatever you or your partner thinks is endangering the relationship and it is your job to go through with it. It may not even be of a “physical” matter so to say, it could be something even emotional or thoughtful This can bring about doubts of the relationship and whether “taking a break” (some may call it) is needed”
Look:
There is no such thing as a “break”. It’s just what most people have come to learn that it’s something that you can do. Look if you are going out with someone and you say “I love you” and everything like that you can’t just say “take a break” because that a total bullshit excuse. Love is a continuous river that is constantly flowing and do you see a place in the river where it stops then starts again? Um I have no clue what fucking planet you are from but on earth there is no river that exists like that. If you even think about saying that you should stop saying “I love you” because you know, no matter how much you deny it, that your falling. Out. Of. Love. And because of that you find some bullshit excuse found out in the world of today’s teenagers going “oh lets take a break, please for me?” when you know your doing it for yourself even THOUGH your asking your partner to give it to you. I know this isn’t a definite thing because there are people out there who say “lets take a break” and then come back and they fall in love again but that’s them. Not you. You know damn well when you say “lets take a break” you already have a guy in your head, weirdly enough. This time of the relationship is a very hard time, and here you decide whether this is the time now to understand if this guy/girl is good for you, is that person out in the world for you. And when you both agree on the same thing, go for it. Don’t give into the repeated “I love you” just for the sake that your going out with the person, not the quick peck on the cheek to just insure that you still love him/her. Please don’t do that, that’s just lieing straight into the face of your love, and that’s just plain idiotic and asking for a heartbreak. When you do ANYTHING please mean it with your heart, don’t just say it, don’t just do it. Please, mean to say it, mean to do it no matter how small, how it is seemling insignificant it is right then in there, but in the long run when you look back you can see how much it really means.
Please just don’t say it for the sake, mean it. Realize how much that person means to you, don’t hang up on the horrible times, don’t sucked in and get emotional and say thing without thinking about it in a heated conversation. Don’t take for granted what you have in your life. Don’t go around the day on a schedule with your love saying “I love you” at so and so time and kiss her at so and so time, no. Be different, break the habit, keep the passion alive. Without the passion there is no fire, and when there is no fire there is only a dark room and before you know it you can’t tell if your partner is there or not. Please think of this when you are in a relationship and take into account what I’ve said. I’m wishing that there is no more unneeded heartbreak out there, and that people are smart enough in relationships to know what they are doing. I’m writing this now for all of you who know what I’m talking about or are going through this time in life. I just hope it gets to you, before you regret it.
“Life is all about changing, so break the habit”
Signing off… | | |
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Yo, yeah long time no see. Rant today? Yes, very much so. Got one for you and lets begin.
Today’s Topic: Dreams, careers, life, whatever else I mention
Rated: R
Okay let’s begin now shall we? Dreams. What is a dream? Dreams are figments of our imagination sent into a subconscience world when we sleep and usally replays our memories. Those dreams, I’m not talking about. Dreams as in goals. Goals are what we have established for our future for the oncoming train of present. We all have dreams/goals: fireman, nurse for some of you Asians out there, or even Olympic athletes for you buffed up steriod users. Anyways (yeah you can see I’m going all out now), our dreams are something we set up high for ourselves whether it be as high as person to discover the cure for AIDS or as low as owning a chain of Mcdonalds in the New Jersey Area. However there is something wrong with these “dreams”, most people don’t realize that our dreams maybe on day bested by other dreams. Take for example, people out there who break records from the Guiness Book. Do you think the person who originally broke the most bones in their body at one time would roll in his grave because there is someone out there who broke his dream of breaking the most bones in their body at the same time (although I don’t know how that is a dream, but for this rant we shall allow it). No they didn’t meaningly intent it.
What I’m saying is, or rather ranting, that our dreams maybe one day be bested and even now this very minute, you have to accept that there is someone out there in this huge fat ass of a world that that very person IS BETTER THEN YOUR ASS, because we all know. Someone out there is better then you, and if you don’t realize that fact then your closing your mind to the world. People evolve (unfortunately) into higher and higher beings, and thus the knowledge is being brought up with every couple having sex and making a child and brining it up into this world. So if you think you’re the best in karate, 10 years black belt with numerous medals stuck to your ass. So what, there are masters out there who been at it for 30 years with no medals, but can still own your ass and beat it to the ground. Why? Because they’ve been at it longer then you. Wait, no, not even that. There are 10 year olds who have had their belts 5 years and still could kick your ass. How? Because they are better then you. It’s a natural thing for humans to evolve past other humans. So what about that 30 years black belt dude? If he is wise enough, he could relize that there would be someone out there who can best him in it because that is what is what. There is no exception to this rule, it would just take time before it can happen. If he dies before he gets beaten, oh well we need a new champion (damn asian karate masters).
What I’m saying in this rant is that you have to, no, MUST KNOW that there are people out there better then you, but don’t be depressed and go “ughh” because of the natural right of evolving that YOU can be better then those PEOPLE. A person can only be the best in something to his limits, but humans are meant not to have limits. Sure it may take a longer time to be just as good as them, but that’s that.
There is no natural talent for anything, you just learn something quicker.
And don’t give me some bullshit like ‘Oh I’m just someone stupid’ because your NOT. No one is naturally stupid, no one. They just may have to take longer to learn things that other kids take less time. You have a FREAKING BRAIN, use the goddamn thing. And if your not doing well, then try harder because you know you damn well can. Granted I wish I was smart like some people, but that doesn’t mean I can never be like that. All I need is more time, like 1029830912 other people in this mother fucking world. No one is “Smarter” then anyone else forever, we just need longer bitch.
In the words of the Carlos Mencia (Or at least the idea)
“Don’t be complaining that your working behind a cash register in McDonalds
‘Dur, I dun’t kno y I got thi-this job’
Well I don’t know stupid look at your REPORT CARD
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You know what that spells?
‘D-d-d-d-d-d-durrrrrrrrrrr’”
Like what he said, school is very important, and if you don’t take it seriously now and go party your ass off and goof off with your friends, go ahead. Just don’t fucking complain behind that cash register how much your life sucks when I’m ordering food as an employee in a company, ok?
Look, I’m out of ranting steam already and now I have nothing else to go on.
Look you guys, or whoever reads this. I don’t mean to hurt any of you when I rant my ass off like this. But you know that you gotta hurt your friends if you love them that much ya’nno? And if your not my friend well feel free to be pissed off.
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| Just a story, a lesson, a thought learned from me to you...
Rated: PG
A story of what I think, what I feel, and my own experiences with death
This is one of the subjects that always plagues my mind, and mostly one that confuses me when I think hard on all aspects of it. I've tried seeing it, halfway, none, all the way, different perspectives, the deceased themselves, etc. It's always something that couldn't be figured out. So I'd like to break down each aspect of death that I have looked at...
Trying to figure out why death happens, is a very simple task to a medical field employee, well if your a good one that is. It happens for many reasons, natural causes, heart problems, brain problems, trauma to the head, etc. But on a different level of "why" or sometimes on a spiritual level. Allright, honestly, I'm not the world's greatest catholic, though, you gotta think about who's up there to figure out things down here.
Why does death happen? Is it because maybe the one upstairs wants us to come back home, though understandable for older people because they have lived a full life and passing on to the next world is something that is most expected to happen, but children, teenagers. Why do they die, there is no reason for them to leave this earth, they are just people who have more of a life to go, they have yet to see another birthday, yet to graduate and get married, yet to everything. Children especially, are the innocence of mankind. We as adults, due to corruption of peers, TV, goverment, whatever the case may be, Are filfthy and disgusting compared to a child's innocence. Though that's another subject I'll go on about later.
Death should not be hated, as a murder or grim reaper. It's a sign of how we must get stronger, it helps builds us what me will experience. We should all be prepared to, for, and around us. For death is one that waits for no one, and we should not be destroyed because of it's existance, we should face it head on.
Honestly, though a preach a lot about "Ohhh, Death comes so shut the hell up and suck it up". That's only the reality part of me making me think. I think that death is, yes, something we must all take part and experience. However, I believe that humans are always afraid of death, and I for one, have not experience death a beloved yet. I can't stand the though of human life because I think of what they could've been, where, who they could've been with. But in the end, I can only realize what death is to us.
For those who have, if you have read this I'm sorry if I bring any bad memories or things. But remember, though death comes, though they leave this world. This world isn't as perfect as God made it, they leave this world entering a new world. Better then what this earth humans corrupted it would be. It's called heaven, Nirvana, anything...
It can be called anything
Just anything else, besides this world we call reality
Qoute:
"It's never goodbye... It's just see you later" | | |
| Ok, not a pissed off rant, just a huge question that always plagues my mind.
Why do people hide behind masks? Around people they aren't who they really are, just like a shadow of what people want them to be. I'm not saying it's a bad thing, but I think it's a bad habit. Let's get into analyzing it now.
Rated:E for everyone! ahaha,
Just going to make you think a lot about yourself that's all.
Why do people hide behind a mask. Is it to protect themselves? Do they want to fit in with the crowd, not look like an outcast. I think a mask is something people create, consciencly or unconsciencly, to hide and protect themsleves from somethign they fear the most. It varies from person to person, around the world, and the situation born to create and use a mask. But sometimes is it bad to live the mask, and not return to your original self?
I think, a few people in the world, are hurt so much by so many things, so much they mask themselves for protection. Much to a point in their lives that they live it, they become it, and they lose their original self. They become something their not, something that society, something that their own minds want them to become. It's sad that they lose their own personallity and don't appreciate the value of what they had. Something so true, a personality of no one's elses but their own.
And not only when people are hurt. I think emotions like happiness and sadness are like the lowest forms of a mask. They make us become something else due to a outside (or sometimes inside) force. Happiness isn't something we couldn't be. It just could be someone is naturaly happy. That's a personality, but there's a point to that "being happy". Those people can be "overjoyed" and that would me they are being more then happy. I think these are the lowest forms of masks, just regular emotions due to anything.
But emotions that carry on deeply like depression and something depressingly, I think isn't a mask, it could be like something we truely are, are we? I think it's not who we are now, I think it's a weakness inthe mask. Yeah, thats it. Depression is a weakness in the mask, it's our time of weakness that we can't help ourselves.
See, by destroying the masks, and becoming who we really are, we lose all site of depression and fakeness. We lose the cliches and the ways we want to fit in. We become people of who we are and we should be proud of who we are and what we do. That's what I hope someday, hope that no one hides behind a mask...
Truthly, I do sometimes too, but sometimes I realize I do it too much, and I let go of who I was supposed to be and become who I am, and wether you like it or not, is no big difference to me. Becuase that's who I am hehe.
Very inspiring day, nothing else to say and I'm el finished.
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"People are like jewelry, the real ones shine better then the fake" | | |
| -err- due to tehnical difficutlies...whatever | | |
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